So this guy sent me about 6 emails on this dating site I am registered on. Finally after the 6th email I decided to write back. We chated everyday for about two weeks and then we decided to finally meet up in person. It took us a couple of days to pick out the best spot but we eventually picked my favorite bar because a drink helps make a first date go a bit smoother. When I showed up to the bar there was no sign of him and after about 15 minutes I decided to send him an email asking him where he was. When I got his reply I was shocked because it read: “How does it feel to be ignored and stood up? This is for ignoring my first 5 emails!”

I had been divorced for a little over three years so I decided I would get back out there and start dating again. I tried going to a couple of bars and night clubs but I just felt out of place and old. Finally my 20 year old daughter convinced me to try online dating. The concept of talking to someone online without even knowing them was kind of scary to me. So I was very reluctant at first. I didn’t give many details and was kind of guarded and due to that my results were not what I would have wanted.

Finally I decided that I wanted love in my life again, so I would just put myself out there and I did. I started talking to this guy name Steve who sounded like a gentle man. We talked online and on the phone for about 2 months and then we decided that we wanted to meet in person. I spent about 30 minutes getting ready and about an hour freaking out because it had been so long. Finally I pulled everything together and got ready to meet him at the restaurant. I didn’t want him picking me up and knowing where I lived in case it didn’t work out.

When I showed up to the restaurant he had not made it yet so I got a drink at the bar. After about 25 minutes of waiting I tried calling him but got no answer. When I looked up from putting my phone away, I saw my ex husband sitting right across from me. He proceeded to tell me that he paid a friend to act as Steve just to make sure I wasn’t seeing anyone else. I could not believe what I was hearing. I just walk out, stop by the liquor store and got myself a bottle of Jack the only man that never let’s me down .

I dated this guy named Jerry.  He was a talker; but that was kind of cool. We could go on for hours talking about anything and everything under the sun.  The banter back and forth was great, our opinions were dully noted and topics ranged from household goods to tranny-talk.

Physically I was attracted to him, so that was another check in the right direction.  His job as a flight attendant was a little iffy, not because he was gone quite a bit, but because of some of the stories he talked about. I’m not judging, I’ve had my fair share of fun; but I’ve also partied with some of these flight attendants. Which is exactly the reason for my concern.

Nonetheless, I wasn’t going to hold that against him. I was finally going to let my guard down and let him in. In all sense of the word.

That was until he talked himself out of it; as he was between my legs.  There’s just something about a guy who knows a little too much about the various hot spots of destination VJJ that doesn’t sit right.  Especially as he was comparing mine to all the others while he was down there.

Needless to say, that was one conversation I had to cut short.  After all, I had nothing to add.  Funny thing is, he didn’t get it and as you could imagine, felt another discussion coming on.

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I got my answer on the following Monday.  We were supposed to hang out on Monday night, but I hadn’t talked to him all weekend.  This was strange because we normally spent the weekend together.  But, we both had stuff going on so I didn’t really think too much of it.  He called me Monday night.  We small talk for about 5-10 minutes about what we had done over the weekend.  Then he tells me that he had called for a reason.  We needed to talk.  I ask him what he wants to talk about.  He tells me that he has been thinking about it for the past couple of weeks and he doesn’t think we should see each other anymore.  My response, okay.  There is silence for about a minute.  He asks is that all I have to say.  Yeah, I respond.  Then I ask are you done?  I thought you had more to say.  He says that he doesn’t.  That was it.  Okay, I say again.   What do you want me to say then?  That you broke my heart, I ask.  He says something like that.  I start laughing.  I tell him that he would have to have my heart in order to break it.  He doesn’t have it, so I am fine.  I ask him what made him decide that he didn’t want to see me again.  He tells me that he already told me. He’s been thinking about it for the past couple of weeks.  Great, I tell him. 

So informative!  This has become a pet peeve of mine about him.  Not talking to me.  When I ask a question, I expect an answer.  I get nothing from him.  He then goes on to tell me that I am one if not the best looking girl that he’s been with.  That he really likes me, but not in that way.  He says that he views me more as a friend than anything.  This makes me laugh even more.  I tell him that we aren’t friends.  Never have been friends.  My friends tell me things, I say.  I tell him that he has made it easy for me because I share his viewpoint on not wanting to see each other anymore.  I also tell him that I know what he’s doing.  I tell him that now he has had a trial run on his penis that he wants to share his newly circumcised dick with the rest of the world.  I tell him not to expect too much because even though it’s new to him…for the ladies it’ll look like every other dick we’ve ever seen.  No big thing.  He gets really quiet.  Then he asks if we can be friends again.  No, I tell him.  We aren’t friends.  I say that this is the point of the conversation where I say “Take care and good luck!”.  He responds with what do you mean take care and good luck.  Laughing, I say just that…take care…and good luck.  Conversation over. I hang up.

Some of you may think that I am crazy for what I did.  Sticking around in what clearly wasn’t going anywhere just to have it end the way that it did.  But, the guy was a nice guy for the most part.  I enjoyed some of the time that we had together.  I tried to overlook things about him and get out of my own way.  I really wanted to know what was going to happen.  If he was going to drop me like a bad habit once he knew he could have sex again.  Question asked. Question answered.  Yes.  At least, I know that the time we were together he didn’t cheat on me because he couldn’t have sex.  100% sure…circumcision.  Ever confirmed by him…nope.  Funny.

Five days after I get the news, my best friend corners me and asks me why I have been acting so weird. I tell her I am fine. She doesn’t buy it. She starts drilling me with questions begging me to talk to her. Finally, I relent. I tell her what he said and what I have researched so far. I say that I don’t know what to do. She tells me that she thinks that he got a circumcision. I ask why she is thinks that. She tells me that her ex-husband got a circumcision while they were married. Then she says that it is part of the reason why they got divorced. I ask what she means. She replies that when he was able to have sex again…he started fucking anything that walked. Hence, the divorce. She warns me that it may happen to me, as well, if that was what my guy had done.

A couple of weeks pass, no more information has been given out regarding what he had done. I continue spending time with him and enjoy the “all about me” attention he gave. I ask one night after he is done taking care of me if he had a circumcision. I tell him that he can trust me. He gives me a look that could kill. Then says my name like he is pissed off. I back off. I learn nothing. This only confirms to me more that it is true. He didn’t deny it.

A couple of more weeks pass, still no more information. We are at a month after whatever he had done. I start thinking to myself that if it was a circumcision that he would be telling me that he wanted to give sex a try. Everything I read the previous month said that guys must wait 4-6 weeks. The longer that I went without knowing, the more I realize how I don’t want to be in a realtionship with this guy. There is no future if he can’t talk to me. The only reason I am sticking around is because I want to know what the hell he did to his penis. I knew that I would find out when we had sex. I was going to see it one way or another. I was determined. Plus, I wanted to see if he would react the way my friend’s ex-husband did. Almost exactly one month after whatever he had done, he sends me a text message saying that he couldn’t wait until November to be with me. He wanted to try the next time we were together. Really, I ask.I was excited. It had been hard the past month not being able to be with him in that way especially with all that he was doing for me.

On the day, he comes over to my house. I had gone to see some haunted houses with a friend. He went to see the sneak peek of Paranormal Activity 2 with some friends. He beat me to my house. By the time I arrived, he had already showered and was in my bed. All the lights were off in my room. I undress and crawl into bed. He’s waiting for me. We start fooling around. We had talked previously that he was going to take the lead to make sure that everything went alright. Once he knew it was okay, then I could pounce on him. Things are going well. Clothes are off. Hands are everywhere. Only downfall thus far, no lights. Damnit, I think to myself. I decide to go with Plan B.Hands. I reach down and start fondling his penis. This time, he doesn’t push my hand away. I don’t notice that his penis feels any different than other I had felt before. Affirming even more that he had a circumcision. After we are done, he gets up to use the restroom.

He tells me not to look. My bathroom does not have a door. I figure he doesn’t want me to hurt my eyes when the light goes on. When he’s done in the bathroom, he crouchs down next to my bed on the floor. What are you doing?, I ask. He says that it hurts. What does? My penis, he responds. He tells me that it is uncomfortable right now and that he thinks that it may be a couple of weeks too early to have sex.I asked him if it hurt while we were having sex and he said that it did, but he didn’t want to stop. I ask if there is anything I can do. He replies no. I roll over and go to sleep. It may sound insensitive, but by this point I am a month into not knowing what the hell he did to his penis. I don’t feel like pressuring him to tell me something clearly he doesn’t want to tell me. I only wanted to know what he was going to do after his “trial run”.

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I had been dating this guy for a couple of months.  Things were going well and we had already taken it to the next level.  After he got back in town from a work trip, he came over.  That night we started fooling around.  Things were getting pretty hot and heavy when all of a sudden he stopped.  He said that we needed to talk.I looked at him confused and said now?  He said yes.  Okay, what do you want to talk about?,I ask.  He says do you remember how I told you that I was in Washington DC this past week? Yes. He responds that wasn’t true. I didn’t have a business trip. Okay, where were you then, I ask.  He tells me that isn’t important.I ask what is important then? That you lied to me? He tells me that he did in fact go out of town, but not for work. He said that he had gotten something done and had spent a few days at a friend’s house recovering. He told me that what was done means that he cannot have sex for six weeks.  At this point, I am really confused.  What?  Is he serious?  What did you have done?,I ask.  He tells me that it is personal.  He said that the only reason he was telling me was because we had already been intimate together and were about to again.  I am shocked.  I have a million questions running through my head at once.  What did he have done?  Why was it too personal to tell me? Seriously?  At this point in time, I am naked as a jaybird and he is only wearing boxers.  I say all of this to him.  He tells me that he will at some point, but that not now.  He didn’t want to talk about it.  Okay. Fine.  Don’t tell me.  Keep your secret, I think to myself.  I start thinking to myself how long it is going to be before he is going to be able to have sex again.  Six weeks?  I do the math in my head and say so it’s going to be November then before you can have sex again.  He starts chuckling to himself about what I said.  Then he tells me that even though he cannot have sex doesn’t mean that he can’t satisfy me.  He said that he wanted to focus all of his attention on making sure that I was taken care of.  That it would give him time to perfect his skill sets of going down on me.  What girl is going to say no to this?  I perk up a little at the thought of the next six weeks being all about me.  I tell him that will work and that one of these days I hope that he will feel comfortable telling me what was going on down there.  I figured that I would try to be supportive to him about what was going on even though I had no clue what it was.  Mainly, I was curious to see what it was. 

Later on that night, I was having problems sleeping.  He had stayed over and kept getting up every five minutes.  After several hours of being woke up by him, I ask him if he is okay.  He tells me that he is in a lot of pain.  I ask him why.  He tells me that it was from what he had done.  I ask if there is anything that I can do.  He tells me no.  I ask if he wants some Tylenol or something.  Again, he tells me no.  He says that he has pain meds, but he forgot it at home.  I respond that we need to figure something out because I needed to get some sleep.  Now, I am starting to get annoyed.  He won’t tell me what’s up because it’s too personal and now here he is keeping me up all night from whatever the hell is going on down there.  He says that he should probably go home.  I agree that it’s a good idea.  He leaves at 5 o’clock in the morning.

The next day he text me that he wants me to come over that night for dinner and a movie at his place.  This begins the start of his making sure that I am taken care of.  I figure that in a couple of days, he will tell me what happened.  I try not to make a big deal about it him not telling me, but in fact it really bothers me.  If he can’t tell me this, what else can’t he tell me?  Or is this too personal?  You can fuck me, but not tell me what’s wrong with your penis?  Shouldn’t that be when you do tell me? 

I didn’t tell anyone about what happened.  I didn’t know what to say.  I was still shocked by what he had told me.  I Google what could make a doctor tell a guy he can’t have sex for six weeks.  At this point, I don’t know if he is lying to me.  After all, he did lie about having a business trip.  I got results back for everything from gender reassignment, to circumcision, to vasectomy, etc.  This only brought up more questions.  I didn’t think it was gender reassignment.  Even though, his three best friends were gay guys.  I thought it could be a vasectomy.  But, that typically didn’t make a guy wait six weeks before having sex.  He had mentioned that he was going to do that or at least was thinking about it.  I was convinced that he had a circumcision.  He was originally born in Colombia.  He moved to the States when he was three months old.  Colombia typically does not circumcise baby boys.  It had to be that.  This may sound strange that I am not 100% sure of this.  Especially since, I have already said that I have had sex with him.  When we had sex before, it was really dark.  I couldn’t see his penis.  He wouldn’t let me touch it.  I didn’t really think about it at the time, but now that I am it’s weird.  He told me at the time that he wanted to focus on me.  I guess I was caught up in the moment.  And in case you wondering…no it didn’t feel any different.     

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There was a new guy in my school last semester and he was very attractive. When he asked me out I couldn’t believe it was real. Our first date was at the artisan festival and my friend kept asking me when we were going to kiss. Sadly, nothing happened that night. I got a Jesus wood statue for my mom—that was as exciting as it got. The next day we decided to go to the movies. We bumped into the friend from the artisan date night and we were chatting it up.

We were all going to watch the same movie, talking about a third-wheel or so I thought. After sitting down in the theater I got really hungry and decided to grab some popcorn since my date was too busy talking about racing cars and 300 pound sumo wrestlers (Yeah, I bet you can’t see the connection either).

After I came back they weren’t sitting down on the same spot anymore. I thought they had moved because of the people that sat in front. I looked up and figured that they were somewhere near by. I see these two people sucking their faces out, as expected on the movie theaters, and I asked them to excuse me—I had to pass by somehow. After the insatiable saliva exchange from the two lovebirds they turned around.

That porno show that I had just witnessed had the two best actors I had met in my life: my date and my friend, the two sumo wrestler panties sniffers that just carried out a biochemical warfare exchange through their unholy and disgusting saliva. I stood there in shock, debating whether I would take the popcorn and shove up their rectum or drown them with my Pepsi.

The only thing those two could say was: “You took too long, we ran out of topics to talk about so we kissed”. All I could do was walk out .